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Assalamu3alaikum!
It is the 11th of Ramadan today! Time has been flying so fast. I’m sure many of you would agree with me that once it’s Ramadan, you don’t like the time flying like it does usually. The ambiance, the very air we breathe seems different. Alhamdulillah 🙂 Only Allah can make fasting for 15 odd hours seem pleasurable. 🙂
The topic of this blog has been a question for me and various women every Ramadan. What exactly are we supposed to do if we can’t pray or read the Qur’an? I will inshaAllah deal with this topic in two parts as it might be quite an extensive read!
To start with, women should remember that just because we get our periods, it doesn’t mean we can’t be rewarded for our deeds. If our intention is to please Allah, to make the maximum out of Ramadan, then inshaAllah, the angels who write down our deeds will continue to do so 🙂
Here are a few things women can do during her periods in Ramadan (as well as after Ramadan too)
1. Listen to Qur’an recitation:
It is surprising how little we think about ‘listening’ to Qur’anic recitations. We focus on how we should read more, which is true. But even listening to someone reciting the Qur’an is a part of our deen. Listening to the Qur’an being recited has a positive effect on us. If you’ve ever concentrated on listening to the Qari/Iman reciting the Qur’an, you know how it calms one down, you feel positive.
Allah says in the Qur’an:
But those who have avoided Taghut, lest they worship it, and turned back to Allah – for them are good tidings. So give good tidings to My servants (17)
Who listen to speech and follow the best of it. Those are the ones Allah has guided, and those are people of understanding. (18) (Surah Zumar, 39:17-18) (1)
2. Reading the Commentary (Tafseer) and Meanings (Tarjumah) of the Qur’an
For Arabic and non-Arabic speakers alike, reflecting upon the words of Allah, to understand the deep meanings behind it, one should make it a must to read and understand the Qur’an in their local language (if they are non-Arabic speakers).
To reflect upon the verses of Allaah is a form of worship; it is something that will draw one close to Allah, Most High.
Then do they not reflect upon the Qur’an? If it had been from [any] other than Allah , they would have found within it much contradiction. (Surah An-Nisa 4:82) (2)
Maybe you have a favorite ayah, or ayats that you want to learn more about? Or maybe you have memorised a surah and now you want to know what it means? The possibilities are endless 🙂
3. Dhikr of Allah:
A women on her periods can do excessive dhikr night and day. This is a blessing in disguise. While fasting we get so busy with praying and reading the Qur’an that we don’t read du’as or do dhikr!
Mu`adh Ibn Jabal (RA) said that the Prophet (PBUH) said: “The People of Paradise will not regret anything except one thing alone: the hour that passed them by in which they made no remembrance of Allah.” (Bayhaqi) (3)
Abu Hurairah (RA) reported:The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, “Allah the Exalted says: ‘I am as my slave expects me to be, and I am with him when he remembers Me. If he remembers Me inwardly, I will remember him inwardly, and if he remembers Me in an assembly, I will remember him in a better assembly (i.e., in the assembly of angels).” (Riyadh As-Saliheen, Bukhari & Muslim) (4)
The following are some dhikr that we can make day and night, whenever we can remember, while walking, while sitting, or doing anything for that matter. 🙂
1. اللْهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي
– Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibbul ‘afwa fa’fu ‘annee
– O Allah, You are pardoning and You love to pardon, so pardon me.’
This du’a if you’ve noticed is read extensively in the last 10 nights of Ramadan. So make sure you’re in the habit of reading them 🙂
2. سبحان الله
– SubhaanAllah
– Glory be to Allah
3. الحمد لله
– Alhamdulillah
– Praise to Allah
4. الله أكبر
– Allahu Akbar
– Allah is Great
5. لا اله الا الله
– Laa ilaaha illallah
– There Is No God But Allah
6. لا حَوْلَ وَلا قُوَّةَ إلاّ بِاللهِ
– La Hawla Wa La Quwwata Illa Billah
– There is no might nor power except with Allah.
7. أستغفر الله
– Astaghfirullah
– I seek forgiveness from Allah
8. سُبْحَانَ اللّهِ وَ بِحَمْدِهِ
– Subhan-Allahi wa bi Hamdihi
– Glory be to Allah and Praise Him
9. سُبْحَانَ اللّهِ ، والْحَمْدُللّهِ ، وَ لا اِلهَ اِلَّا اللّهُ ، وَ اللّهُ اَكْبَرُ ، وَ لا حَوْلَ وَ لا قُوَّةَ اِلَّا بِاللّهِ
– Subhāna-llāhi, wa-l-hamdu li-llāhi, wa lā ilāha illā-llāhu, wa-llāhu akbar. Wa lā hawla wa lā quwwata illā bi-llāhi-l-aliyyi-l-azīm
– Glory be to Allah, All Praise is for Allah, There is No God but Allah, Allah is the Greatest, There is no might or any power Except with Allah
10. لا اِلهَ اِلَّا اللّهُ وَحْدَهُ لا شَرِيكَ لَهُ ، لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَ لَهُ الْحَمْدُ وَ هُوَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌ
– Lā ilāha illā-llāhu waḥdahu lā sharīka lahu lahu-l-mulku wa lahu-l-ḥamdu wa huwa alā kulli Shay-in qadīr
– There is No God But Allah Alone, who has no partner. His is the dominion and His is the raise, and He is Able to do all things
11. Durood e Ibrahim
“O Allah, let Your Blessings come upon Muhammad and the family of Muhammad, as you have blessed Ibrahim and his family. Truly, You are Praiseworthy and Glorious. Allah, bless Muhammad and the family of Muhammad, as you have blessed Ibrahim and his family. Truly, You are Praiseworthy and Glorious”.
Or one can also read: Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallim (Peace Be Upon Him)
Imagine, even you read ‘SubhanAllah’ 20 times, if you read in 5 times a day, it becomes 100! How wonderful is it to glorify the Almighty a 100 times without even putting so much thought into saying it?
You can find more dhikr here
4. Dua & Repentance
And when My servants ask you, [O Muhammad], concerning Me – indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me [by obedience] and believe in Me that they may be [rightly] guided. (Baqarah 2:186) (5)
Allah loves repentance & loves those who turn to him in sincere repentance:
And they ask you about menstruation. Say, “It is harm, so keep away from wives during menstruation. And do not approach them until they are pure. And when they have purified themselves, then come to them from where Allah has ordained for you. Indeed, Allah loves those who are constantly repentant and loves those who purify themselves.“(Qur’an 2:222) (6)
The times when Dua’s are most accepted during Ramadan are:
1. The third portion of the night shortly before suhoor/During Tahajjud.
2. In the state of fasting.
3. Between ‘Asr & Maghrib.
4. Few minutes before opening the fast.
5. On Jum’uah, before & after khutbah.
6. The time between sounding the Azaan & the Iqamah.
7. When it rains.
8. After reciting the Qur’an.
9. The Night of Qadr/Last 10 nights of Ramadan.
We should not be among those who let Ramadan pass by and do not repent for their sins or asking for Allah’s forgiveness.
Kaab Ibn Ujrah (RA) relates that Rasulullah (SAW) said ‘Come near to the mimbar*’ and we came near the mimbar. When He (SAW) climbed the first step of the mimbar, He (SAW) said “Aameen”, When He (SAW) ascended the second step, He (SAW) said “Aameen”, When He (SAW) climbed the third step, He (SAW) said “Aameen” When He (SAW) came down, We said “O Rasool of Allah (SAW), we have heard from you today something which we never heard before” He (SAW) said When I climbed the first step, the angel Jibraeel (A.S.) appeared before me and said
“Destruction to him who found the blessed month of Ramdhan and let it pass by without gaining forgiveness”
upon that I said ‘Aameen’. When I climbed the second step, he said,“Destruction to him before whom thy name is taken and then he does not make Dua for Allah’s blessing on me (by saying, for example SAW).”
I replied ‘Aameen’. When I climbed the third step, he said“Destruction unto him in whose lifetime his parents or either one of them reaches old age, and (through failure to serve them) he is not allowed to enter Jannah”. I said ‘Aameen’. (Hakim, Baihaqi) (7)
We should ask Allah to accept all of our good deeds during Ramadan & be hopeful that Allah will accept it from us. We should also have FULL hope that Allah will accept our Dua’s if not in this world then in the hereafter. We should accept his decree for he knows best in all matters.
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End of Part 1
Jazakallah Khair!
References:
- http://quran.com/39/17-18
- http://quran.com/4/82
- Shu`ab al-iman (1:392 #512-513)
- http://www.sunnah.com/riyadussaliheen/16/28
- http://quran.com/2/186
- http://quran.com/2/222
- The Book Of Fasting, Tahfeem us Sunnah series 9, Compiled by Muhammad Iqbal Kailani